Alternative Lifestyles

Alternative Lifestyles for Seniors

This is the sixth in a series of articles in answer to requests for more informational help with “downsizing” issues for seniors. The focus here is on determining what type of lifestyle they wish to have.

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Allow Yourself to Consider The Options

In counseling seniors, it became clear to me that many have not yet fully considered the variety of different types of housing they could select from. Since most would rather not move at all, it seems easier for them to not look into various alternative ideas and locations. Often, they decide to stop thinking about positive reasons to move at all, related to health, ease of daily living, proximity to grandchildren, etc.

However, for those who do consider the potential benefits of moving, there are some guidelines that may be useful in narrowing the field by comparing a few different lifestyles. For example, what you want to have included is important to itemize. What it might look like and how it might feel is equally as important to consider.

There are several variables that make up a wide variety of community alternatives, such as location, size of community, composition, and type of community, size of living space, and ownership type. Some aspects of these are:


Where it is geographically, and whether it is in an urban or suburban area. Also, whether it is nearly all self-contained.

Size of Community

It can range from a few people living together, to an apartment-like place with 20-30 occupants, or an entire development with hundreds of people in close proximity.

Composition of Community

This might be age-specific, multi-generational, geared toward primary interests, etc. It also may include assisted living or some form of continuing care in case the need arises in the future.

Living Space

Size could vary from 300 square foot quarters up to full-size spacious homes. Most people preferring a community lifestyle usually downsize, but some may still desire a larger living space.


This could be private, co-op, or even leased from a single entity.

Think Through the Details

It may be most useful to write out your thoughts about each of these variables. If you have a clear idea about any of them, having the details on paper can eliminate alternatives that really would not be ideal. It can equally as helpful to note which aspects you do not want.

If you take the time to be even more detailed and systematic about this process, you could create a comparison chart and then highlight or circle the desired choices in each category. An example of this could be the following:

Location Community Composition Living Space Ownership


Shared large house


500 sq ft



20-30 units


1,000 sq ft



100+ units

Assisted living

2,000 sq ft


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